Well, let's see. I am almost older than dirt; married to the most wonderful woman in the world; and enjoying retired life. We joined the local BDSM community more 20 years ago, and since then we have made great friends with many of them. The Mrs. is certainly the boss, and that suits me fine. We play mostly at home, but we do attend some local events.
Lately she has been getting more interested in sharp, pointy things. Have to see where that goes.